
Frequently Asked Questions
You've got questions. There are answers.
Here are some common questions we receive.
Common questions
Everyone is telling me abortion is the only option.
Everyone around you may have formed an opinion of what you should do. But what does your heart say? Cast aside the negative voices drowning out the truth of your goodness, your dignity as a woman, and your tremendous capacity to love. Let us help you discover what will bring the greatest joy to your heart.
I'm so afraid right now, and I feel like I need to just take care of this pregnancy as soon as possible.
Fear is a very strong emotion. At times we can be deceived into living out of irrational or unfounded fears. This can be paralyzing and prevent us from taking positive steps toward a solution. It may also cloud our judgment and lead us astray. Important or life-changing decisions are best made in peace and freedom.
People say they would support me whatever I decide. But I think they want me to have the abortion.
It sounds like you are looking to be listened to and understood by the significant people in your life. You want someone who will fight for you and your dreams. You deserve to be upheld and cherished at this time, not pressured. We want to empower you to listen to and follow the truest desires of your heart.
What if I'm in school?
We know that as a student you may have unique questions and concerns regarding your pregnancy. There is a way. We believe in you. We would love to walk with you.
I can't imagine having a child and reaching my dreams. Is it even possible?
You have plans for your life, and bringing a child into the world may not be part of those plans right now. However, the mystery of new life within you can be empowering and a great source of motivation to finish school, have a career, and become the woman you were meant to be. We believe in you.
No one in my life will support me. I feel so alone.
Women facing an unexpected pregnancy may be embarrassed and ashamed. The first inclination is to hide their “mistake,” or to “take care of the problem,” before anyone knows. This often leads to regret. You are not alone in this journey. Take time and allow us to connect you with those who have been in similar situations and who are willing to share their perspective.
I’ve had an abortion. Will I be judged for what I have done?
Absolutely not! We know abortion often brings deep suffering, and you deserve to be received with compassion. We'd love to walk with you on a journey towards healing.